Grown-up vs. juvenile politcs March 19, 2003 By Mark Kleiman @markarkleiman I’m sure my anti-war friends aren’t interested in taking any political advice from me right now. But maybe they’ll listen to Timothy Burke, as quoted by Patrick Nielsen Hayden . Narcissism is the only absolutely unforgivable political vice. Whoever you are and whatever your issue, it isn’t about you. Your need for self-expression should be dealt with on your own time.